People who can't even understand their own emotions and psychology simply have no way to break into the high-end circles.

Because of a trivial matter or a few words of provocation, they will develop a defensive mindset. Those who enter a "battle-ready" state tend to see problems as if they are children playing house.

Severe emotional volatility, rampant self-esteem, and excessive vanity form an insurmountable gap for the poor to turn their lives around.

Because their fundamental psychology carries hidden wounds, some are even inherited family traits. Entire families with no educated or well-mannered members, and no major achievements within three generations, tend to struggle with repairing these genetic flaws.

It's very sad. Most children from humble backgrounds have never received special treatment. They grow up in a cycle of "comparison and attack" and "hesitation and endurance," with their inner world constantly under pressure.

Even when they become adults, they only appear to be more sensible, but their psychological models haven't changed.

As soon as they encounter a little stimulation, their genetic wounds are triggered.
Unfortunate people spend their entire lives trying to repair childhood.

Therefore, it can be imagined that if children of farmers can still start from scratch, the cruelty of challenging fate alone is beyond what most can imagine. The first step is to brutally dissect the past self, piece by piece, tearing open and re-sewing their spiritual flesh and blood, which is the right way to begin.

Someone born with humble origins and lacking "surface resources" must first target their "internal system," or they simply won't have a chance to reach the big tables.

You need to face betrayal within your family alone, because only when there is that one disobedient person can the family possibly change something. But even you don't know whether you'll succeed or fail. Ultimately, you'll face a period of "no one understands, no one cares, no words to say, no way out" — a solitary endurance.

This loneliness in middle age is precisely the watershed of life, the necessary path to rebirth.

You must identify:
Which reactions are conditioned reflexes from childhood trauma. Which desires are excessive compensations born from scarcity.
Which anger is a fragile cover-up when facing injustice.

In the quiet of the deep night, replay those moments that made you ashamed, furious, or collapse — not for self-blame, but to see clearly. Are they triggered by the facts in front of you, or by that trembling child deep inside who has never been soothed?

Note: This is not simply about self-discipline or effort. It’s about personally sorting out your past self, then destroying that past self, and growing a different appearance and soul anew.

Only then will you have more effective energy to handle more complex situations, and be able to approach the game with a "calm mind," breaking through and forging your own unique path.

Don’t dream, don’t keep chasing unfinished things. With a chaotic mind that’s not yet settled, don’t delude yourself into thinking you can be at the top.

Break the illusion, refuse to wait and rely on others, reject mass conformity, and regain control.

Step by step, slow is fast; steadiness surpasses everything. First dismantle yourself, then plan yourself, then dismantle your position, and arrange your circle. Use a top-level perspective to view all problems, constantly approaching the source of information. Put your thoughts, ideas, and actions precisely where they matter most. Wherever you go, clarity of thought and decisiveness are the most valuable qualities.

To achieve great ambitions, you must first be reborn from the ashes. To establish a lasting legacy, you must first understand the grand enterprise.

Those who know how to prepare will have opportunities. Using yourself effectively is the key to using others.

No longer act like a pawn, being manipulated and pushed around by others. Instead, develop a leadership mindset, oversee the big picture, penetrate into the details, and adjust your stance at critical moments.

One day, you will carry the family’s legacy on your back and become the founder of your own bloodline.

The hardships and upheavals along this journey will ultimately become your medals of a lifetime. This is a life experience dominated by masculine consciousness — only those who can confront themselves and fully engage will truly be worthy of themselves and this life.